Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein dating and marriage CHAZAQ

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Applause] thank you very much Rabbi you can call me Rabbi wallo if you want okay so um I was asked to speak tonight on a subject of dating and marriage and I'll tell you the truth I'll tell you a site a secret Wy never dated so I can't really speak that much about dating because I married the first girl I met and girl I met and and it was on my first date actually that I proposed and she said no andm we're married 28 years so I'm sorry I apologize to the camera but I I'm I'm a little add since I'm a kid I walk I I walk a little bit okay anyway so I don't I really can't give you much you could probably give me more advice on dating that I can give you but being that I have students I'm an interesting character because usually you have a character because usually you have a rabbi that teaches girls or you have a rabbi that teaches boys so the rabbi that teaches girls he here's the girl side the rabbi teaches boys he he the boy side I teach I'm actually teaching boys for 28 years I'm teaching girls for four years so I hear both sides so I can bring tonight both sides to the table I can bring the girl side I can bring the boy side then I'll bring my side and boy side then I'll bring my side and we'll try to get a little bit understanding of why created this whole situation of man and woman and dating or even in theic in theic people where they don't actually have dating it's called the Bish show where the father and mother come to meet the other father and mother and then the boy and girl go to a room and speak for 40 minutes

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1. 0:00[Applause] thank you very much Rabbi you can call me Rabbi wallo if you want okay…
2. 6:06start from when everyone was born what does a child do a child when it's born…
3. 12:17comes out and but you can't go out with this boy whatever no you don't know…
4. 18:29people and ask them for advice and don't come to us we hate when you go…
5. 24:42cuz he needs time to unwind he needs time to CH meanwhile what does she say…
6. 30:54and it's for single girls and it's for single boys and I think that we have…
7. 37:09that moment when you're putting the ring on her finger and you have all that excitement…
8. 43:23word means and the way to learn is through our experience of growing up and therefore…
9. 49:35you so wait maybe he did maybe he didn't we don't know what happened yet relax…
10. 55:52missing something what he took what hasem took from us we're missing so we are all…

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