Rabbi Shais Taub discusses Torah-based parenting and emotional well-being.
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Some children grow up feeling like they're on probation and they're all based on my performance. I'll get a performance review and then they'll let me know maybe they'll couple thank you for your time with the firm. Good luck in your future endeavors. So there are certain children who live feeling literally on probation. So unconditional value means you have a value that cannot be lost. Inherent value means your value it's not outside of you. Meaning you don't have to acquire it. There are children who grow up feeling they have to go out and accomplish something. They have value. They they don't even believe that they they matter unless they go out that they they matter unless they go out and prove it by doing something. Rabbi Sha Tab has become the go-to voice for Jews seeking deep healing through authentic Torah wisdom, blending with raw emotional honesty. Whether he's breaking down addiction recovery or explaining the soul's journey, he speaks straight to the heart with clarity, compassion, and spiritual depth. In this episode, I did a live recording with him at FFH, my favorite PESOC program I've been to, and you hear a lot more about them. And there's a live audience there. It's a master class on parenting on what to do and what to never do with your children. Thank you to this week's the conversation that we're going to do is is about how to cultivate and create the the most successful children possible. Let's start off like you said, what's the worst thing a parent could do? I like to reverse engineer it. Like flip it. Like how do you ruin an okay? Yeah. Like the worst possible parenting. Okay. If I wanted to undermine, god forbid, but okay. Uh uh very simple. Very simple. And if you
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- 0:00Some children grow up feeling like they're on probation and they're all based on my performance.…
- 6:10read yeah I read some books not that many I actually don't really read so many…
- 11:48interrupt that that that vicious cycle when a person is stressing about the fact that they're…
- 17:31God, speaking quiet the nervous system and calm down and hear the voice of inspiration. But…
- 23:42mother and your father. And I don't think that there's a biblical verse that has been…
- 29:24interesting. I had a video uh posted on social media and I mentioned this verse and…
- 35:02but what I would say is that I have rarely have ever seen a situation where…
- 42:10I'm going to say some of you will probably trigger some uh indignant comments, but I'm…
- 47:48call that the soul. So I beg parents, see your child as a soul. which means…
- 53:52a story uh from your experience that you've seen that could bring out one of the…
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