Secret to Make Everyone Like You

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Benzion Klatzko’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Among the things that you work on with in yourself is your disposition. Your disposition is how you how you present yourself to the world, to the public. And our disposition is nothing to do with the way we dress. It has nothing to do with the makeup that we put on. Our disposition is when I think of this person, do I think of somebody who smiles? There is nothing as potent that you have that can create good vibes and good reputations as a smile. What a smile does when you smile to somebody is you're telling them, "I'm happy to see you." And like Hamelach says, Pnei mayim panim el panim, kein lev adam. If you're happy to see me, then I'm happy to see you. Then we like each other. Yay. So imagine somebody who goes around smiling in general. They smile. That's their They They have a What do they call a resting smiley face, not a resting frowny face, a resting smiley face. That means when I look at them, when I walk by them, they will be the one that smiles and nods. Other people will be the people who pretend they didn't see you. They're very busy. Well, why why am I smiling? What what's my

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1. 0:00Among the things that you work on with in yourself is your disposition. Your disposition is…
2. 0:33who smiles? There is nothing as potent that you have that can create good vibes and…
3. 1:03If you're happy to see me, then I'm happy to see you. Then we like each…
4. 1:36agenda? No, I am the one who radiates warmth, who radiates friendliness and openness. So it's…
5. 2:08They'll simply think they're not as welcoming, they're not as happy to see me. So the…
6. 2:42You're in a bad mood. The answer is even more so that's when you have to…
7. 3:12married and that person that you're greeting in the morning happens to be your husband. But…
8. 3:43Right? My smile has to be a given.…

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