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b [Music] Today we will learn in three steps how, Today we will learn in three steps how, as we said, we can sway the hearts of those around us and influence their thinking. King Solomon, the wisest of all men, knew all the languages in the world, not only human languages, but also the languages in the world, not only human languages, but also the languages of animals. We know that he knew languages of animals. We know that he knew even the language of palmistry and foxes. There was no language that he was not proficient not proficient in. There was one special language that King Solomon was also proficient in. He teaches us in one sentence in Proverbs Chapter 16. The language of the heart is like water. Face to face. Yes, the heart of man to man. As we all know, at the time when a person wanted to see his reflection, he would go to the water and, like a mirror, he would see in his face. King the water and, like a mirror, he would see in his face. King Solomon says, as water reflects the face, yes, there is a language between hearts. Yes, the heart of man to man. And we will explain the process that occurs. Let's take as an example Abraham was hired. At first, he seemed very happy and content with his job and his salary. But after a month salary. But after a month and a half, we meet him and we see that his face is more like Maror than Purim. When he is asked why what happened, he describes to us that he feels that the boss At work, he is being bullied, he is being teased for everything he does, he feels unwanted, and to understand how this happens, let's go back to the beginning of his first day at work and
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