Special "marriage" Shalom Baiyt talk with Rabbi Shafier about his new book Hosted byVictoria Zirkiev

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shay Tahan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

hey everyone wait till you guys come on hi everyone i'm super excited to host this live with a very special rabbi let me just make sure you guys can hear me you guys can see me well i'm gonna put in rabbi schmooze is so popular that it's broadcasted on ace tour anytime israel national radio on different syndicated papers and it's listened to people worldwide it has over 10 000 listeners in each schmooze and he inspires so many people worldwide with his torah and he is an expert on shaman bite so i'm excited to uh bring him on to this live and hear his expertise and advice one second let me see on we've been practicing this ah it's really an honor having you you have so much experience in this field of marriage and you know being a father of six and a grandfather of seven and dealing with so many married couples throughout the year uh i would love to know rabbi how did you get involved in this whole sean bite fair question um you know i started as a mild-mannered rabbi i used to give the schmooze and most of the guys originally were single these guys started getting a little bit older they started getting married and because i was their rebbe they came to me with all types of questions initially the questions when the guys were first married were pretty innocent enough you know just uh how do

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1. 0:03hey everyone wait till you guys come on hi everyone i'm super excited to host this…
2. 4:46they can avoid them right so basically you're telling me that there's always the most common…
3. 9:02your primary obligation is to your spouse and your marriage comes before any other relationship i…
4. 13:42i mean it is heartbreaking to see um one of the big things is you know…
5. 17:50you know getting offended right okay so three rules of criticism ready rule number one is…
6. 22:27don't remember and she said well it changed my marriage i said what do you mean…
7. 26:35parent your child this way and not that way i almost guarantee a big part of…
8. 30:46aggravates him don't do it because it wrecks the relationship by the way i have a…
9. 36:30the game oftentimes you need a professional maybe you need a marriage therapist a marriage counselor…
10. 41:44right way to fight and when you mess up right and you know and even when…

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