For WOMEN: Beyond Mashpia/Mekabel PART 2

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shais Taub’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Okay, good evening and welcome back to part two of an overview of which is a mimer from the regarding marriage. We started this uh a month ago actually on yud daled kislave the 14th day of the month of kislave which is the anniversary of the wedding of the rebba and rabbitson and on the on that date the date of their wedding the rebba's father-in-law the rabbitson's father the fikba said this discourse and The Reb then later said his own version or elaboration or explanation of the mimer and these two thei became sort of manuals spiritual manuals for the Jewish marriage. So in part one we discussed some of the basic ideas and I gave an entire overview of the flow of the mimer chapter by chapter which we will not uh do again here tonight. Uh and we also spoke about some of the the practical application what those spiritual paradigms from the mimemer look like when applied into an actual relationship of a man and a woman living under one roof trying to uh raise a family and and have a public regarding Tatispaka, regarding the the foundation, the spiritual foundation of the Jewish home. And uh they approached me about doing this event one month ago. And uh the reason that I didn't want to do it is I was feeling overwhelmed because my daughter was getting married the first the second night of Kaneka, first day of Kaneka, second night of Kaneka. Uh and I was like too much. But then I was then I

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1. 0:00Okay, good evening and welcome back to part two of an overview of which is a…
2. 6:08why intimacy really is different for men and women. Is that a truism? Is that like…
3. 12:16The teacher knows. If if the students knew, the students would teach. But the teacher is…
4. 18:30probably my my favorite kava. Um, and she's my wife and she's one of the deepest,…
5. 24:48that the truth is they don't need to get any whiplash when they get married and…
6. 30:57is not giving. It's invasion. It's violation. And yes, when I speak to the men, I…
7. 36:48make a a dwelling place in the lower realms. So that's malus. That's the idea of…
8. 42:57the mirrors that Mishenu didn't want to accept them? So, as I mentioned, these were the…
9. 49:12recapture retroactively the things that we would have put behind us and left in the past…
10. 55:56very interesting because most couples you you speak to today, you don't you never hear that…

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