The Seven Habits With a Jewish Flavor - Habit 6 - Synergize

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Avi Wiesenfeld’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

the second group of three first group of three was working on the inner ourselves the second group of three which will come as the end now is working on taking it to the next level which is taking everything we've learned and putting it into the relationships and it's not just that but it follows a sequence specifically so that we can work on how we have internalized these habits and become better people and therefore obviously improve our relationships and become more and obviously much higher effective people which is obviously what this book is all about so we have just come off habit number so we have just come off habit number four which is think win-win which we've described a lot a bit about the difference between lose win win lose lose lose and obviously win win that we're looking for a better uh you know a better perspective a better idea and then obviously last week habit five we discussed seek to understand and then be understood and now we have habit number six which stephen covey calls to synergize right what does that means how do we describe the word synergize so in a very synergize so in a very simple way which takes time to just sort of digest how we understand that in simple way it means working together that's pretty much what it means but really it's the interaction or the cooperation giving rise to a hole that is greater than the sum of its parts in other words when people work together which happens in all levels in all times in all situations it could be in a workplace it could be in a marriage it could be in a family it could be in a friend's siblings

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1. 1:03the second group of three first group of three was working on the inner ourselves the…
2. 2:36it could be in a friend's siblings whatever it may be when people work together so…
3. 4:37to the other what happens is science tells us that the roots intermingle and it actually…
4. 6:38get yourself a wife why because ultimately both of you will gain the lotion of rashes…
5. 8:41to a hike wherever it was and at one point she saw there's no way i…
6. 10:43and he said it's a tremendous lesson for our lives sometimes we refrain from doing things…
7. 12:15important thing to remember synergy is a very exciting it's a hard habit to really work…
8. 14:19but instead of opposition and defense there was actually a genuine effort to understand the attitude…
9. 16:21tremendous strong bias tremendous relationships at work which means a more productive workplace which means more…
10. 18:26and not words so therefore he figured the more often a website was linked to other…

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