Rabbi Yonatan Admoni - Argue, But Don't Fight! (Pele Yoetz)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yonatan Admoni’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

that a person has to wake him wake should wake himself off is to prevent that's step one so what can a person do to wake him so he should wake up himself if every time he feels gets him it says the problem is that once the gets into you you don't have anybody to remind you is there is on silent because you because you cannot even pay attention to because the one who takes control then is he takes your emotions your brain everything he shuts everything down and he talks and he takes control he has no say then what should a person do you what you have to do is get the on stage before the now how you get him how can you get him to so when comes in he says nobody's gonna pay attention to him you have to get the before comes in how do you do that you have to have a fence you have to have offense Because by the time it's is there and you have no offense boom you're gonna fall there's no question that you're gonna fall down so what do you do you have to have a fence and what's the fence that you have to accept upon yourself to do things not to bring you to that place they love to drink and once drink do all the silly things what do you do means put a fence I don't drink outside you want home you want to home make a fence because once you get lot once you're going to allow yourself to drink outside and the r parties you know what's going to happen to you so why to go there so when your brain still works to set to yourself boundaries I mean I I met him after he became but he told me before

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1. 0:06that a person has to wake him wake should wake himself off is to prevent that's…
2. 3:56event so you know some wow wow wow in any…
3. 8:12see two feet he sees the moment because he SE the moment to think the outcome…
4. 11:56exercise number one let me cut for my meals cut one second do exercise and slowly…
5. 16:19addictions people some people their temper is the short temper they they they they get angry…
6. 20:02anger over when now what I'm angry when I'm calm when you're angry you can you…
7. 24:05your so loud now but it's okay that there is no expecting you to say something…
8. 28:25silent nothing never never never was personal never we had this we had argument which school…
9. 32:22son I'm talking about a wife a son is you are 25 years older than him…
10. 36:07in the house that's it silent don't take it yeah I want to tell you this…

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