A Reason For The Delay - Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein ZTL (Judge Favorably) STORY

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maybe she's going to live a year. Rabbi, I always dreamt that my mother would walk me down to the huppah. But now it seems, I'm only 12 years old, that she's not going to live that long." And the rabbi looked down at this little girl and said, "I give you a haftacha. I promise you, not a bracha. I promise you, your mother will walk down the huppah with you together." Okay. The mother is living and living and living. Baruch Hashem, refuah shleimah, a nice. And now the girl turns 18. She's in Bnei Brak. They write her a shidduch, the best boy in Ponevezh. She says, "I can't go out. I'm not ready. Let my younger sister go out." She had nine siblings. "Let my younger sister go out." Okay. All right. Sister goes out. "I'm still not ready." Second sister goes out. To make a LONG STORY SHORT, 20 YEARS. SHE DOESN'T DATE. HER mother is freaking out. Bnei Brak is going crazy. She's a beautiful girl. She's a frum girl. What do you What do you mean you're not dating? "Not dating. I don't feel well. I don't know how to be married to a man. I got anxiety. I can't." 20 years later, after everyone's married except her youngest sister, her mother relapses. And her youngest sister says, "I am not getting married before you." She was 20 years difference between the two of them. I'm not getting married unless you get married first. And the older girl who's

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1. 0:30maybe she's going to live a year. Rabbi, I always dreamt that my mother would walk…
2. 1:01Baruch Hashem, refuah shleimah, a nice. And now the girl turns 18. She's in Bnei Brak.…
3. 1:31Bnei Brak is going crazy. She's a beautiful girl. She's a frum girl. What do you…
4. 2:01now 40 says to her younger sister, "Listen, Mommy is very sick. I don't think it's…
5. 2:32"I don't know. I'm not out of the shatchen business for a while, but I'll check…
6. 3:02dies. In the middle of her sheva brachot. They're sitting shiva. And all of them are…
7. 3:32She said, "Sisters and brothers, I never told you this story. But when I was 12…
8. 4:06Who was the rabbi? She said, "The Chazonish." It was the Chazonish that gave her that…

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