Orchos Chaim of the Rosh #110 Accept a Lame Apology

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Daniel Glatstein’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

mms whether it's true vimsheker or whether it's false that means like this some you uh somebody hurt you somebody wronged you don't reconcile to them if it's true or if it's false sometimes somebody has a good excuse while they sinned against you and they actually give a rationalization and an explanation and sometimes it's the most lame excuse in the world just accept it and move on just accept it and move on don't be so exacting with them when they come to excuse themselves don't be so mock bid with them and we learned this from my colleagues himself because how often hashem has macabre our words even though he knows that it's superficial and it's completely not meaningful um the madrid tells us that when we stood on har sinai and we said nasa van ishma it was not a genuine acceptance of the torah in our hearts we were thinking torah in our hearts we were thinking about avoiding zara nevertheless who accepted our offerings hakadosh who accepted our uh cabal satora and we have to deal likewise with other people even though they may tell us excuses and it's disingenuous nevertheless we should accept it now rabbi rukh lavitz in the das torah of goldberg quotes quotes this rush and he says human nature is if somebody and he says human nature is if somebody comes to console you and to ask for machila you say whoa what are you making such a big deal about what did you do already you didn't do anything so at first glance it seems very good very nice but the truth is that it's just the opposite the reason why the people have a reaction the reason why

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1. 0:30mms whether it's true vimsheker or whether it's false that means like this some you uh…
2. 1:02just accept it and move on don't be so exacting with them when they come to…
3. 1:33torah in our hearts we were thinking about avoiding zara nevertheless who accepted our offerings hakadosh…
4. 2:34the reason why gut instinct is to say ah it's nothing it's not a big deal…
5. 3:05the person has a valid excuse so if they have a vow excuse of course you…
6. 4:05could actually be worse than the one who did the hurting because by you not giving…
7. 4:35where the puzzle says this is not just me but this is a warning how to…
8. 5:07um on the past you have the matter says why malaha only the robbers are doing…
9. 6:16they're also over on hamas why because they cried out to hashem too much meaning they…
10. 6:46so in a sense they are acting inappropriate as well and it's considered hamas new um…

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