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Good evening and blessings to you all. In every human society, whether it's within a family, at work, or in any interpersonal relationship, the opinions of people are not the same. The wise have said, "Just as their faces are not alike, so too their opinions are not alike. Every person has a different opinion, and this is natural, especially in relationships, whether in marriage, parenting, or at work. People often have parenting, or at work. People often have criticisms or complaints and they express them. Sometimes these criticisms can lead to situations where the other person's self-esteem is shattered. Whether it's parents criticizing their children, a husband criticizing his wife or a wife criticizing her husband. When there is too much criticism and it is expressed in an improper way, it can lead to destruction. On the other hand, when someone feels the need to speak up, they may wonder, "If I don't speak up, they may wonder, "If I don't speak up, how will the other person know what bothers me? How will they change?" In general, there are two types of moral reproof. One is when a person hears criticism from others who reprove them and point out their mistakes. The other is when a person takes the initiative themselves, sitting down to study, opening books, listening to lessons, and seeking guidance on how to change. In chapter 12 of the book of Proverbs, King Solomon says the following. He who loves
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