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Being the Mashpia | Being the Man Training – Session 4

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Rabbi Yom Tov Glaser

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  1. 0:00Shalom everybody and welcome to the next installment of being the man. Today is called being…
  2. 1:32good marriage. And I wouldn't want that good marriage, you know. It's um you know, it's…
  3. 3:03You know, so so it's not like it's not like this and also when you're in…
  4. 5:07The male calls the shots. Okay? You got to get that. You call the shots, period.…
  5. 6:40The man looks at her. He really looks. And the man's not disappearing. You know how…
  6. 8:41And a man is is never needy in the marriage. Now I told you all before…
  7. 10:12And there's you are. The man's calling the Rav. Okay? It's not that a woman can't…
  8. 11:44"I don't know." And And but I'm but I but like but I've got the wheel…
  9. 13:51Just continue on [music] down natural breathing. Feel yourself as a man. Ask yourself not what…
  10. 15:24She might try to look away, don't you look [music] away, and don't say anything. And…

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