Shalom Bayit or Shalom I had it - Gedale Fenster

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shalom Arush’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] my wife obviously I have to get that out of the way um you should know how important this topic is shown by this is a major major topic obviously we know what the divorce rate is today and the purpose of today's class is to give everybody just to give everybody an open mind and a realistic understanding on on Shalom bite the more you know something about something the more mercy you got in heaven so it's very important you can't say you know I didn't know it's today but there's a lot of information out there we can't just say I didn't know I didn't know you know it's in life it's not it's people say Oh what you don't know what hurts you know what you don't know is what's hurting you so a person has to understand he has to pursue dad if something's broken in your life if your business is broken you have to figure out why it's broken if something is not working you have to figure out why it's not working you can't just have a very passive attitude and say yeah it's not working with it's maybe it's that it's maybe that so that's what's very important to have the key that the key to this is to have a very proactive and seeking approach on how to better our marriages and etc and also it's also for a relationship with also with a person's future spouse if the person is not married etc we're gonna take the content tonight is going to be taking a lot of it from rabbi rabbi Lucia's class a lot of their their resolve and also from the lava to Rebbe so we're gonna cover basically Chabad

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1. 0:00[Music] my wife obviously I have to get that out of the way um you should…
2. 4:42if that child continues to be a small child and becomes a big child that needs…
3. 9:59or forgive our significant other or parents how do we how do we tap in to…
4. 14:42no problem I can say you know you should have done it but no problem and…
5. 20:08doesn't do with me I'm good or you say please change my wife change my husband…
6. 24:50means she's there to help you that means what kind of wife are you looking for…
7. 30:08pressing problems pressing problems present problem so another thing we need to understand very very important…
8. 34:48will intuition says it's not logic we're logical well he's a nice guy she's like no…
9. 40:01the reward is honoring the light the more light you give the more light you get…
10. 44:57what should he do you should feed other people's tables because where do most people fight…

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