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Rabbi Shalom Arush

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wow what a crowd Daphne I've dealt with you for the past month you've brought me to Westbury in 30 degree weather if I'm not walking out of here with some marriages I'll never come back here again [Applause] beautiful events such hard work such beautiful I don't want to make up our Mitzvah speech here we need some action we need to break some walls tonight we're gonna give you guys an amazing class Mr at Hashem today's class is and in honor of my wife for letting me come here tonight Hashem bless her with Shalom bites give everybody shall invites so I decided originally I said you know what it'd be it'd be a cute thing to be a Matchmaker you know I said let me try this matchmaking thing you know it was nice I already set up four or five people so let me try it let me see how it goes it was the shortest matchmaking ever in history so I just wanted to give you my top 10 excuses that I got what made me retire and I said I think I'd rather sweat people's noses for covid I think that's more brutal so the from Jews would say I have a nice girl from you what's the story ah not shyas what's not child the Ashkenazi oh she's too emotional too emotional for me Israeli to American the Moroccan to Ashkenazi do you want me to starve the Syrian No Deal what do you mean no deal doesn't want to go to deal no deal the Persian to religious the liberal is not vaccinated

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  1. 0:02wow what a crowd Daphne I've dealt with you for the past month you've brought me
  2. 3:09working before doesn't mean it doesn't work just means your heart or something we're doing off
  3. 6:50want to be happy nobody can make me sad it's not possible but if I don't
  4. 10:36quit forever fail once quit Forever Stereotype every relationship based on one bad experience if you're
  5. 13:50you guys I need you to do a 40-day challenge I'm doing my best it's hard
  6. 17:35if you make a mistake you learn from it but don't repeat it make mistakes repeat
  7. 21:21single so let's talk about some strategies I know the room is very quiet I hope
  8. 24:33when you get married you're taking responsibility so sometimes because you took responsibility wealth will come
  9. 28:27if you're picking her up this is an opportunity the amount of effort you put in
  10. 32:16you cannot shove your score card on your partner that causes resentment and it kills a

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