Iggeres HaRamban #5 - Speak Soft To Be Saved From Anger

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Daniel Glatstein’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

times uvazad not so menace and this way you will be saved from anger so we spoke at length about showing how the word means softly quietly who does come to include when we say what is that who is that referring to means anyone even someone who you perceive is of lower stature than you mean the person is greater than you to speak to him loudly and to talk to him in a very loud way islam but even somebody who you perceive is lower than you in whether you're older than them more important than them even such a person you should not speak loudly to now the safer charity though says that it refers to someone else as well and that is what about to a even though the gemara says in many places gentiles not called an adam nevertheless regarding this certainly the dictate that one should speak softly applies and quietly applies even to a gentile and that is because speaking aggressively is an act of gaiva so it doesn't matter who the recipient of it is it's a personal inherent type of behavior which is forbidden and discouraged regardless of who you're speaking to in fact the sephir kharidam writes which means that if you have some kind of worker in your house and he's doing a lousy job ad kid they want to ring his neck and you want to yell at him but the midos of the torah require that one always speak in a controlled disciplined manner that's what the ramban means at all to all people however um what does he mean so if goldberg we read a few days ago because bacholas refers to even

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1. 0:31times uvazad not so menace and this way you will be saved from anger so we…
2. 1:32refers to someone else as well and that is what about to a even though the…
3. 2:33and he's doing a lousy job ad kid they want to ring his neck and you…
4. 3:35and your friend is not listening so you want to uh explain what you mean in…
5. 4:37full extent of the logic of something unless it's accompanied with the sword of the chitsoi…
6. 5:39and then the ramban says as follows because if somebody trains himself to speak banachas when…
7. 6:45now the ramban says about uvuzati not so menace by speaking softly you will be spirit…
8. 7:53your eyes as if you worshiped idols but nowhere does the gemara say that anger alone…
9. 8:54in the shari kedusha that kas is a anaf of gaiva and the shlo says that…
10. 9:54of idolatry but it's it could end up bringing to that because now you're no longer…

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