Parshas Chayei Sarah: Shidduchim - Do You Have to Listen to your Parents

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Daniel Glatstein’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

he says I make you swear by the name of God God Of Heaven and Earth is better not take a woman for my son from the canaanim rather my latitude rather you should go to my land to my birthplace and from there you should take a wife okay so the plastic says that abhinu is giving Elias a very specific giving Elias a very specific instructions of what type of wife to take for yet do not take a woman from Canaan rather go to my land my birthplace take a woman from there very simple question Elias there's not the one getting married yes looks the one getting married so if you talks to one getting married let the father and son have the big talk have the heart to heart talk and let avraham say to you exactly who he would like or would not like his book he would like or would not like his book to marry let avram sit down with you so I can say look you suck you're a good kid you've been a good kid since you were young by the okay though you didn't Flinch you did everything we asked of you we're very proud of you you make us very proud the one one request do us a favor don't take one of these Kanani women why is avraham giving instructions to Eliezer give instructions to your son ah so here we come to a very important

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1. 0:34he says I make you swear by the name of God God Of Heaven and Earth…
2. 6:07mauric is that if a parent has an opinion about oh ask for mayor simcha well…
3. 12:00and they have something invested in that it could be very distressing for them for the…
4. 17:39you could eat peanut butter if you want there's no Mitzvah on the Torah of it's…
5. 23:32you can't listen because the father also has to listen to Hashem the mother also has…
6. 29:44who to marry is tantamount for the parents to tell the kid to do an Avera…
7. 35:25is more lonely than a man cause I'll say more than a man wants to get…
8. 41:05Schumann says are you kidding me I'm worth a hundred thousand get lost I want more…
9. 46:53relationship unfortunately so does Misa and therefore says if was under the jurisdiction of the parent…
10. 52:43would say the same way by divorce if the parents say both say something it's Pick…

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