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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shais Taub’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

I think there's confusion today I think there's confusion today because we've come to a point where we recognize that certain paradigms that were familiar to us are no longer effective I'm talking about the old style of parent style of parent that perhaps was quite popular and pervasive in previous generations or maybe even not that long ago a few years ago even and we've come to a point where we realize that's not really what toyoto wants it's not really what cidus wants and besides for all that it doesn't work the children don't respond to the harshness and fear-based and shame based so we've come to a point where we realize that we need to unlearn some of the old models but the question becomes what do we replace that with it's easy to just throw around words it's easy to say well we don't want to educate children out of fear we're going to educate them out of love okay I agree but what does that look like what does that actually look like to educate out of love and I to educate out of love and I think what's happened I'm just saying this as an observer is that in many cases what we've done is we let go of stuff that we know doesn't work but we haven't yet really replaced it with anything so we know that we don't want to be so hard on our children that we break them God forbid we know that's not the

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1. 0:00I think there's confusion today I think there's confusion today because we've come to a point…
2. 2:08them God forbid we know that's not the path but then what do we do instead…
3. 4:14it's new to us I mean it may be new in terms of the entire timeline…
4. 6:17story that the rebbit told that basically sums up the entire new paradigm for Our Generation…
5. 8:20the and he explained what it was that aroused his feeling of of love for his…
6. 10:57depends if it's holding a stick mention some other things too the statue could be holding…
7. 13:04harsh like like Russians like liters you know they used to bark at each other so…
8. 15:09of impurity from the face of the land there will be no more evil so you…
9. 17:14no when we go into the makam mode as the Gula draws near we don't leadership…
10. 19:19can drop terms like that but I'll translate it R is Will Ty is pleasure in…

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