How Can I Control My Anger?

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Chaim Mintz’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

we discussed well two weeks ago yobu who got angry and we discussed anger problems of anger sometimes it might be good to get angry we we went through that in a very uh lengthy discussion if you remember and it was asked I think it was you asked now we know about anger how do we work we work on changing ourselves how do we work on anger to control ourselves I believe that's you the one who brought that topic wasn't you somebody sitting in this area yeah must be oh sorry he's not here so I said I didn't want to answer it at that time because I said that I won't do justice to it by just saying a few words about it so I said well devote our next evening to discuss that very crucial question question there are character traits that we want to keep away from we want to control we don't want to live by them anger desires laziness stinginess and so on which are not great attributes for a person usually speaking and how do we go about living the right way and not having our character traits govern our life but we should govern our character traits like we mentioned our rabbis tell us that the righteous the great people have their character traits in their power they use them for their purpose the people that are not great they are in the jurisdiction of the character traits jurisdiction of the character traits they subordinate themselves to the anger and all the other bad character traits so how do we go about living the right way and not letting our character traits govern over us that we should go over them so that's what I want to dedicate our tonight about on our glossery sheet we have number one Abal I translated that one who is a master of

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