For WOMEN: Beyond Mashpia/Mekabel PART 3

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shais Taub’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Welcome to part three of our series beyond Mishia and Mabell, a bride's study of the mimer, the wedding discourse delivered by the um I want to first before we get into the heart of the matter, I want to make sure you understand that when we say it's a part three, uh There's a lot of background in the organized fashion. Um or uh if you're listening on a podcast platform like Spotify or Google podcast, then I can't help you so much. You're going to have to use a little bit of searching skills. But I want to make sure that you know that this is a part three and a lot of what we're going to talk about tonight takes for granted that you have studied parts one and two where we present a lot of the lexicon and the vocabulary and the terminology that we're going to be using in tonight's uh discussion. Also, using in tonight's uh discussion. Also, I want to mention because we have presented this as a women's guide and people asked what does it mean a bride? Does it mean that you just got married? And uh I don't think we're putting any statute of limitations. There's no expiration date. A bride is as long as you want to be a bride. Anyone who's How about this? Anyone who's still learning how to be a better wife is still a bride. That's my definition. Um,

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1. 0:00Welcome to part three of our series beyond Mishia and Mabell, a bride's study of the…
2. 8:18go-getter, and I am more of a go-getter. Is it okay if I help him with…
3. 14:34So first of all let me say that married people have their own lives. Married people…
4. 20:15be conscious that you are treading into dangerous waters. And I'm not saying this to be…
5. 26:34repercussions. And if you see that it is you're coming to a point where you're paying…
6. 32:15relationships, intimate relationships which are inherently abusive because of the power discrepancy. And then let's use…
7. 38:34taught wrong things. So, I'm going to share with you um some information that's important for…
8. 44:31it very clear that this is repulsive and let me be very careful here. Let me…
9. 50:48I'm not saying that it isn't traumatizing. Um, but it but it is inherently different because…
10. 56:29right? So, this is why I'm reading this question now because it's talking about a woman's…

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