Iggeres HaGra #10 - Parents Accountability and Responsibility To Train and Pray For Their Children

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Daniel Glatstein’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

degra said uh to spend time on shabbos kaidish kadashim only to be engaged in musser and to train one's children always to be involved in sifre musa so that we were speaking about last time the importance of utilizing one's time on shabbos to read and to look at uh worthwhile material then the gross says as follows the alkalo ushua because of for if a child curses or swears or speaks falsa take some hit them the rakhimalim khlo have no mercy on them at all so well we mentioned the fact that in this generation many goddalam have already in uh warned about the very difficult ramifications and severe ramifications that come from hitting children today on the other hand it does say in michele someone who withholds the rod hates his son we mentioned uh last last week that one can use words as a rod as well although one has to be careful because sometimes words could be more harmful and more could create a more a deeper wound than can an actual blow so romer yuda lefkowitz he was once asked that there's so many hazal about how what parent really has to uh hit a child and today all the dolem all say that it's not appropriate so ramiko says you know every generation has its rod it has its way of um of inflicting so to speak uh punishment in other words would say that if uh if a child sees all the other children being complimented or or hearing uh encouraging words and they don't get that so for them that could be the rod

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1. 0:34degra said uh to spend time on shabbos kaidish kadashim only to be engaged in musser…
2. 1:42son we mentioned uh last last week that one can use words as a rod as…
3. 2:45that is needed it doesn't have to be a physical blow later on as the years…
4. 3:51so rev goldberg wonders that if you look in taisus yoshanam and sakta yuma taisus implies…
5. 4:53mother may not have an obligation to teach their child how to perform mid-slice but there…
6. 5:54woe to that embarrassment the hatsara and the pain the zoyon and the shame but the…
7. 6:59because in one of the perusal on the igaras hagra of rabbi shayahu yahyal mayor groher…
8. 8:02so then the parent won't be punished but it will still be quite and be embarrassing…
9. 9:08the child asks acts uh improperly despite the fact the parents did everything in their uh…
10. 10:11and if there's some kyoko then now revolver in his uh safer speaks about uh the…

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