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Overcoming Challenges In Relationships

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Rabbi Shay Tahan

Rabbi Ilan Meirov discusses overcoming relationship challenges.

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you know i'm running to my third shield in the past one hour no breather no sitting down so we're going to bizarre i'm trying to make this happen for the reflection of a very special boy in the community should be having a full recovery come back to his parents at home to his siblings at home to his grandparents to his whole family bizarre hashem and we should always get together for his makhot for his bhagamitsa for his wedding and we shall only hear ota ladies and gentlemen we're going to be talking today about the topic of overcoming challenges in life challenges and relationships in particular you know hashem we all have challenges we all have our ups and downs and the longer you live the more challenges you're going to have that's just how it is unfortunately i always tell people when it comes to marriage life there was once a young man that was that was walking down the street and he sees a very prominent rabbi he says you give me a nice blessing the rabbi says what what do you want what blessing do you want is that give me a blessing that i should have a perfect marriage life everything should be smooth life everything should be smooth shouldn't have any bumps in the road so the rabbi looks at this young man as the guy goes like this the kid goes like this and he's not giving him a blessing he says let's go what happened i can't give you such a blessing why not because i know this blessing will never work no such thing as a perfect marriage life but i will give you a bacha that you should have the wisdom and the inner strength

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  2. 4:07it's a very very powerful i want you to listen carefully in your mind as follows
  3. 8:42world he knows what's right and what's wrong he knows what's muthal and what that's what's
  4. 13:18conversation okay the gaba goes out he says shalom elections the guy in the hallway he
  5. 17:57and it's it's also another mahala that comes and affects many people's homes at the end
  6. 22:35crimes you have in prison but you have you know basketball leagues you have you know
  7. 27:13the following mashable there was once a veer a very wealthy guy that was invited to
  8. 31:48let's go help them out let's go help the family we'll do carpool we'll do this
  9. 36:28concepts of how to keep your mouth clean tips and hazal and what you could and
  10. 41:01this for a few minutes you're gonna start having a lot of pain you know your

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