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A Lesson on Family Purity: A Must-Watch for Every Home 🙌🏻🏡

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Harav Gianger

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For this lesson, a very special topic was requested. Every Monday here there is a class on matters of ethics, faith, and encouragement. Every day. Every day and Monday is a slightly broader lesson . But today they asked for a very special topic, and it is truly the most , most important topic. We've arranged it. And it is the most important topic there is. The topic of family purity is the most important thing; it is something that stands at the pinnacle of the world. There is nothing greater than this. There is nothing more precious than this to the Holy One, blessed be He. It is the most precious, important, and perhaps broadest topic that exists in the Torah. In terms of all the laws, in terms of all the things involved. A very serious topic. So let's start by noting that we truly see this with couples who get married. We see in couples who marry that at the beginning, at the beginning everything goes well, yes? When a couple gets married, usually the start of things, the start of getting to know each other , is always a warm start; everything succeeds, everything is good. Sometimes there is such closeness between them, so much so that from smiling—let's say, during match-making or those first meetings—the excitement is caught with such joy and smiles that they walk down the street. It happens, they're walking down the street, and suddenly, early in their marriage, the woman accidentally catches her foot on a paving stone, falls or almost falls, and the husband, so serious, tells her: "It's not your fault, it's all my fault anyway; I've committed all sorts of sins, and it affected you. It’s all me, not you, it’s okay." Everything is beautiful, everything is warm, everything is sweet. A year later, they start getting at each other; they're

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