Life After Divorce - Part 2

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi YY Jacobson’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] dr silva foreign works with high conflict couples and families he also has a daily share on youtube spotify and authors a daily blog titled psychology of the daf which discusses the daily dove from a psychological perspective so called gracious for coming on tonight last second please open it up thanks thanks for having me you know i think about people that are going through such a difficult time whether it's divorce or the aftermath of the divorce divorce or the aftermath of the divorce or custody and um one of my uh favorite uh sayings from khazal which is really a mission and conduction is to shiver off from the gahannam which uh you know it's quite a quite a statement the best of the doctors are basically going to go to hell um and the reason why it's one of my favorite statements is because um you know what it means to me is that any time you're involved as a professional and and truly you mean well i'm not even talking about uh malpractice or or quacks or people uh malpractice or or quacks or people that don't mean well you know even when you mean well and you really do and you really want to help people the fact of the matter is that oftentimes um you might miss the boat and and cause a lot of hurt feelings and they say this by way of introduction tonight because um i don't know if there's a way that we can talk about this topic without somebody in some way feeling this characterized or hurt and you know i just say that i just say like because l didn't say don't be a doctor they just they just warned you that that's what's in store so um we're

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1. 0:01[Music] dr silva foreign works with high conflict couples and families he also has a daily…
2. 6:08govai nayim govai naya means heart to heart face to face you don't have to start…
3. 12:13this type of arrangement is possible it's what we owe ourselves our souls and our children…
4. 18:18get the sense that you feel that not somebody who you could talk to or solve…
5. 24:21you'll never see my face you'll see my back the cypher says it's very very hard…
6. 30:33and and it's hot and your hand pulls away or or like when your nose is…
7. 36:44getting pulled into this whole fight yeah and i would say this is a great opportunity…
8. 42:52he's withholding it for no reason just for being mean how about people supporting such a…
9. 49:04and we often stand idle as we watch the blood of innocent women and sometimes innocent…
10. 55:14our main role as jews which is to stand up for justice to stand up for…

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