The Better Husband Support Group-Session 1

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yisroel Roll’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

good evening and welcome to our weekly newly initiated weekly zoom group a husband's and father's zoom support group called the better husband i'm doing it as well for women called the growing wife and for men we're calling it the better husband and in the mode of personal growth and our desiring to become better people i believe that one of the reasons why we got married is for us to grow as people and i think being married causes us well i would say it forces us to grow as people it forces us to introspect and think of how we can improve in our character one of the keys to this idea is that when we get married and we have children if we're blessed with children we realize very quickly that we are no longer the center of the universe we thought we were when we get married we have to be not egocentric but other centered and we have to sublimate our ego toward our life and then when children come along and we have to interrupt our work and our learning and our panaso our livelihood and take care of children who need us we realize that it's not about us anymore it's about giving and that makes us grow in character so the first 15 minutes of our of each segment and we're going to meet every tuesday night at 8 30 to 9 30. i like to set the format as follows

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1. 0:00good evening and welcome to our weekly newly initiated weekly zoom group a husband's and father's…
2. 6:32in terms of you know my family and kind of not taking my wife my kids…
3. 12:57and they will be like us we have to be very careful and be self-aware these…
4. 19:34and whenever i speak to people on on online they look me up and say oh…
5. 26:00behavioral abilities mind heart actions so this target person our wife which is also ourselves we…
6. 32:20we have to discuss that and trust a wife's intuition a wife has more a woman…
7. 38:53never giving up very important attribute driven that's hashem number two kale kale is mighty powerful…
8. 45:39mile market or at market maven you say thank you is that being there for the…
9. 52:06a person who really tries hard i'm so proud of you and he went like this…
10. 58:36contribution to family are you provider motivator mediator negotiator encourager supporter emotional support person identify think…

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