Getting Married and Staying Married Rabbi Ilan Meirov CHAZAQ

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hey good evening you know I'll be honest with you I was very very uh worried about coming here today I'm getting text messages and phone calls there's a major storm in grade neck thunder lightning trees falling down basically like a tsunami that's what I was getting the impression I was getting worried um but we see a nice little crowd over here people still made it out and hopefully we could uh we could get a little inspired tonight about uh this very very important topic today's topic as we know is getting married and staying married and and I'll be very honest with you I truly believe that it will be a very very big mistake to underestimate the importance of this sh because unfortunately today's society gives us a very very corrupt definition as to what love is all about a very Twisted Outlook as to what marriage life is all about and unfortunately many Jews around the world both non-religious and religious alike have adapted his way of life in one way or another and have therefore suffered the consequences I always tell people that if if Hollywood really were our role models as to what relationships are all about then why can't they stick with one marriage why do they all get divorced two three three four times if there's such Geniuses in this matter right hey they're the experts so shouldn't they be living a longlasting happy marriage for 40 50 60 years so it must be that these people definitely are not ones that we should look up to and by us following their path we're only looking looking for trouble I'll tell you guys a story that happened a few years back and which really sheds light into this matter you should know you know one thing I was visiting somewhere in the hospital and what happened was what

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1. 0:00hey good evening you know I'll be honest with you I was very very uh worried…
2. 6:39valuable lessons that we all we could all take home tonight listen very carefully to really…
3. 13:14you should know you got to prove it to God and after 120 years then he'll…
4. 19:40it it's a joke but it's a reality how many guys right how many guys when…
5. 25:57doesn't want you to think about it cuz the second you think about it you're going…
6. 32:15why be so negative why call us Earth call us something like Nish I don't know…
7. 38:37right that means your husband and your wife is somewhere out there in the world so…
8. 45:01Hollywood and the movies why why why what a what a mistake right and people have…
9. 51:31they say that men have a very it's a mseal men have a very short attention…
10. 57:52details like he did this he did that she said this she that it's not relevant…

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