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COURS DU LUNDI : LA ' SSITE DU MARIAGE (GRAND-RABBIN JOSEPH-'H ' SITRUK)

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Of course [Music] In short, no boss, you all know the joke about a woman sneezing and her husband wishes her 119 years old and she says why not, that's how it was said, that way I'll have some peace and quiet, at least less of this kind of thing, failed marriage, you see? this kind of thing, failed marriage, you see? So we tell ourselves, we tell ourselves why take so many risks, ultimately it doesn't go too badly today in a pretty cool atmosphere, everyone lives as they want and it doesn't bother anyone except the self-righteous people who are mostly ashamed to say they live differently than married when everything is going well, so taking, I was going to say going against the grain of this whole movement, I mustered up my courage to come here my courage to come here and tell you that it is this conception that must be challenged and that for the Torah there is only one way out, marriage, there is only one woman, yours, simply for that you must first find her and keep her and it's not so obvious how to put the odds in your favor, that's kind of the purpose of our modest evening race which I will tell you I'll talk about the rest later, in just a moment. What has in just a moment. What has always struck me, I'd almost say fascinated me, about the Torah is the extraordinary importance it places on love. We see that it takes the time to tell us about Abraham and Meshra, it takes the time to tell us about him and Mary, about Jacob, about them. Ultimately, what the Torah isn't just a grand love story set against a backdrop of deities? We get the impression that, ultimately, God exists, that He guides men and women, but

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