Rabbi Shraga Feivel Zimmerman | Disclosure in Shidduchim

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All right. Welcome. Thank you everybody for coming. Thank you to my wife for the beautiful spread. Uh it's a true privilege to host a postk of such international stature. Um we welcome Zimmerman into our home tonight and um we're looking forward to much needed clarity on the topic of So with that, thank you for coming around. >> Okay, >> take it away. >> Thank you very much. We're going to discuss disclosure and really what we're trying to figure out is what is the balance between what needs to be revealed and what shouldn't be revealed. [clears throat] Certain information needs to be known. certain things are insignificant or there's such a concept as tmi too much information and in fact when you look at it in terror terms you have to draw a balance it says in the don't not be a gossip in the same it says do not stand idly by when your brother's blood or your friend's blood is being spilled. And the nits says that it's in the same P because you always have to draw a balance between the two. You can't always oh everything's lush and har I'm not allowed to say it because you can cause harm to people. You can't always say everything you feel about a different person because then you're a gossip. And the idea in life is to draw the balance between not being a gossip but at the same time being responsible. Now when we talk about disclosure and it's from three different perspectives there's the perspective of the

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