Erev Shabbat Chizuk - When No means No - Rabbi Eitiel Goldwicht

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okay Erev Shabbos physic here we go so we're Erev Shabbos parshas bollock and uh I'll tell you what happened this week one of my daughter's wanted to go to a party with her friends it was like a sleepover party school's over and I said I think it's inappropriate it's on my team it's a corona and it's a good I know this could happen in so many different cases throughout our lives and throughout the year that the kids will ask for something and the parents will give them a note so what happens to the pit do the kids right away say oh my parents said no so sometimes if we're lucky they say that but most of the time and a lot of times I think maybe even other girls called up and said no are you coming there's pressure peer pressure from the kids she's like oh I still have to ask my parents and check it out meaning there's still an option even though I know has said that maybe there'll be a change of mind and then she comes and she pressure isn't a little bit more at the end I stuck to my guns and I and I kept it at a no this

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1. 0:00okay Erev Shabbos physic here we go so we're Erev Shabbos parshas bollock and uh I'll…
2. 1:01time but sometimes as a parent I'll be honest a lot of times I'll give in…
3. 2:05Bella's been super mellow shall I he sent all these messengers what does that sham tell…
4. 3:08go and what is the next classic save a yoke on billaba bokor by a solution…
5. 4:09not a Mayan but not together with them mentally but I think there's a push-up shot…
6. 5:15we want to go hang out we want to go do whatever it is that we…
7. 6:22not good friends or I really want to spend time with you at home right now…
8. 7:31they weren't told affirm no and it was a little bit too much of yes you…
9. 8:34becoming older and they want to do something and we tell them no so they keep…
10. 9:40from it we could ask questions we could have enter a conversation but maybe when our…

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