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מו"ר הגאון הרב שקד בוהדנה שליט"א ששה סדרי משנה מסכת סוטה פרק ד' משניות ג'-ה'

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Rabbi Shaked Bohadana

מו"ר הגאון הרב שקד בוהדנה שליט"א ששה סדרי משנה מסכת סוטה פרק ד' משניות ג'-ה'

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Tractate Sutta, Chapter 4, Mishnah 3, says that the Mishnah says that a woman who has intercourse with her friend and has cleansed her friend, has no wives and does not take a written vow. The words of Rabbi Meir and the sages say that it is possible to divorce her and return her after a period of time, if she is old and unfit to bear children, has no wives and does not take a written vow. Rabbi Eliezer says, Rabbi Eliezer says, they can marry another woman and have children from her. And all women either drink or do not take a ketubah. So here, gentlemen, this mishna continues the division of women. When are they entitled to write it, when are they not, and how it depends on the person's drinking of the Sutta. So here we are talking about something like this, one who passes his friend and cleans his friend. What is this about? We know that friend. What is this about? We know that according to the law, if a woman were pregnant and her husband died, then she was forbidden to marry someone else. Not only if she is pregnant, but even if she is breastfeeding. Meaning, they had a baby and six months later her husband died. So she is now forbidden from marrying anyone else until two years after the baby is born. It's called cleaning until two years after the baby is born. It's called cleaning your friend. What is the reason? The reason the sages ruled on this is because there is a fear that if she marries someone else now, that person will not properly care for the baby. And not only will he not take proper care of the baby, but he will also not let the baby's mother take proper care of the baby. That is, he will prevent her from giving it to him,

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  1. 0:02Tractate Sutta, Chapter 4, Mishnah 3, says that the Mishnah says that a woman who has
  2. 2:39take care of him properly, etc.? Whoever says this does n't understand what he's talking about.
  3. 5:14there are all kinds of food substitutes for breast milk that can be given to a
  4. 7:50And the sages say that it can be withdrawn and returned after a while. On the
  5. 10:27and lamented over him, etc., he is not a wife and does not take a written
  6. 13:02he really became attached to her. Yes, and then he understood the ancient Chinese sage's saying
  7. 15:40Wants to water her She says But go for it I will go up all the
  8. 18:22He said, "Rahmana, what is written is that if a man lies with you without your
  9. 20:59not come to the house. This is how the Rambam interpreted it. And to me, it
  10. 23:39because he cannot buy from someone who is not a person. Mishnah 5 And those who

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