DOES G-D TORTURE US? birkas dayan ha'emes

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Menachem Nissel’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

okay uh first of all it's good to see everybody and today's share is as always we're gonna learn something on a very deep and uh very profound level but today share more than my other showroom is going to touch raw nerves because as i always say when i do care of training when you have an audience in front of you you always assume that approximately 20 percent are hurting are going through personal things or people that they love are going through personal things and when people do go through things the proper approach is generally what we call right the wisdom is to know to be silent when a person goes to a tragic shiva call and you will not be seeing anything from what we're learning tonight and what we're learning tonight is purely a a torah intellectual approach of understanding what is happening behind the scenes of understanding the issues in real life the mahalak is always the way we saw at siddiquim and gadolin and wise people how they act in these situations with extreme sensitivity a person should um should always act uh the first response is silence if you do open your mouth you think a lot before you say anything today we're going to talk amongst ourselves seeing the mario the inner dimensions of what goes on when you deal with tragic situations and it all begins with a mishna in brahmos so for those of you who did bring a a gemara brochus in front of you

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