Episode 63 from Project Self with Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

What’s said in this shiur

The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

okay welcome back everybody we are live from the torch center live audience and um we have our friends on facebook youtube and twitter we have on towards zoom we have our podcast recording we're all set we're all set ready to go okay so last week we started talking about the a specific trait as an example so that we can relate and understand so that we can relate and understand what it means uh when when we talk about the the trait that is embedded within each of us we all have traits embedded within each of us that are unique to everyone to every individual now what what we need to understand is how do we uh how do we identify these traits how do we overcome them how do we isolate them how do we overcome them isolate them how do we overcome them and how do we correct them okay and it's a process to take each one of them we have a number of options the first option is just to ignore everything and make believe it doesn't exist but that's not going to fix any problems right that is not that that's what most of the world expects that you know they say an unbelievable uh i don't know if you can trust any newspaper today that's written but there was a study that was done a friend of mine told me he was just after a divorce divorce and he told me he was very very concerned why because he just read a new york times article which said that most people in their second marriages have the same exact issues they had in their first marriage right i'm sorry everything okay don't worry about the mess don't worry about the mess i just hope you're okay so

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