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The Key to a Happy Marriage: Let Go and Find Harmony (AI)

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Rabbi Zamir Cohen

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in the pursuit of peace and Harmony at home so much can be achieved simply by learning to compromise yet many couples end up divorcing in most cases if we're being honest divorce isn't necessary what is needed is the ability to let go too often each partner stands firm in their ego neither is willing to compromise the arguments escalate the tones get harsher and eventually this leads to emotional distance and sometimes even divorce but what if one person were to take a step back and say to themselves yes I'm right and I know it but I'll let it go a man once came to Rabbi Steinman saying he couldn't bear his marriage anymore and wanted a divorce but he told the rabbi give me three pieces of advice strong ones and I'll promise to try them before I move forward with a divorce the rabbi responded the the first piece of advice

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  1. 0:00in the pursuit of peace and Harmony at home so much can be achieved simply by…
  2. 0:31distance and sometimes even divorce but what if one person were to take a step back…
  3. 1:01is to let go the second is to let go and the third is to let…
  4. 1:34into terrible conflicts over things like this but imagine if the husband tells himself I'll let…
  5. 2:04laundry overdoing dishes but since laundry doesn't bother him and dishes do she chooses to make…
  6. 2:36with different habits but when each partner decides to grow toward the other it builds not…

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