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HIDDEN LINK: Truth-Teller, Empath, Scapegoat

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Rabbi Shais Taub

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  1. 0:00Do we have our first caller on the line? >> Yes, we do. >> Okay, and…
  2. 2:03I'm going to This is going to be a dialogue. So, first of all, yeah, you…
  3. 4:36need to feel that even if it's painful and uncomfortable, their embodiment has value. That there's…
  4. 7:09big T or it's CPTSD, complex uh PTSD where it's like death by a million paper…
  5. 9:42So, tell me if this like resonates with your experience. I actually have a whole video…
  6. 12:17actually unknowingly volunteers for becoming the object of the wrath because the scapegoat actually was the…
  7. 14:48He's actually completely oblivious to the fact that it's causing shame. He In fact, he he…
  8. 17:24an emotional murder. Everyone else is has the luxury of maybe they're a little bit uncomfortable,…
  9. 19:57but I would guess like this. You were probably born sensitive. You were probably born uh…
  10. 22:28like. Okay." So, you give them the lie um even though it makes you cringe. But…

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