The Marriage Seminar #4: The Hidden Secret of Appreciation - Rabbi Benzion Shafier

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[Music] rifka sees hakodesh that a sub wants to kill Yaakov she tells Yaakov to run away Yaakov runs away and eventually ends up at the well and eventually ends up meeting ruffle and instantly he understands that this is his Bashar and he immediately is his Bashar and he immediately understands who she is the essence of who she is and they immediately agree to get married and interestingly enough the puss ik says the isha of the ruffle valley ciccolo the 8th Yaakov raises his voice and cries in a whale by yeast ciccolo means he literally let out a loud wail why did he raise his voice and cry so rushes to explanations the first cry so rushes to explanations the first is because he saw that she wouldn't be Nick Nessus Amalapuram when she was going to be buried along the path along the way because the clients felt would need ruffle steel as many generations later but the point is that Yaakov saw that she was not going to be buried with him and therefore he cried now let's stop on there for a minute you probably are wondering why is that a reason to raise your voice and cry there's a raise your voice and cry there's a reason why ruffle is going to be buried along the road because the client soul needs her you need their trailers and that's what's appropriate that's what's proper why are you crying and if we take nothing else and from this Rashi just the understanding that a husband and wife are together and there's a life together and an end together they say that winner of pom was miffed earth at night someone came to the apartment and Rebbetzin pom was ironing his kettle for the top

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1. 0:01[Music] rifka sees hakodesh that a sub wants to kill Yaakov she tells Yaakov to run…
2. 2:07was ironing his kettle for the top reason and that's a certain understanding that it's forever…
3. 4:43in 1986 if you took $10,000 and you invested it in Microsoft at the IPO and…
4. 6:46that's very important to understand so here's the question Yakko shows up to ruffle with a…
5. 9:24child that's their husband but you are the recipient of tremendous good their obligation is their…
6. 11:57this L would not allow the Rebbetzin his wife to touch his socks from the moment…
7. 14:00debt of gratitude that's larger than life I just love it when the woman goes away…
8. 16:33basement apartment and you had no money for anything else and then look at your life…
9. 18:35if you don't control them then you are in very very grave trouble first of all…
10. 21:09part two part two goes like this once a week for the next month and that…

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