Natural vs. Conditional Loving | Know Your Children (Episode 3)

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The opening of this shiur, in R' Shlomo Katz’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

taken to the hospital this morning. So we have to just pour out our hearts and souls that we should hear good news. One of the sweetest men in the world. >> Okay. On the pages that you have in front of you, we are we are on the bottom of DAFF. Hey, I think it's the second page that you have the bottom of DH. And now we're going into a chapter into the part of a chapter that's speaking about what happens before this thing called what what world are we tapping into before actual education and messages and the giving over of things takes place? What's in this tashit? What's in this infrastructure? Now, one of the things that happens to many of us when we're bold enough to catch ourselves when we're with our children and it's not stemming, it's not really flowing in the way that we want it to flow. We'll find ourselves sometimes late at night looking at p baby pictures of them and starting to cry. And we start wondering how in the world did we get to where we are now? If that's what we once if that's what was mamish once what was being felt and what was being transmitted like what what happened over here? Where's the what's the distance? And for so many people this is very this is actually very this is traumatic. This is a very weird thing. It can be a very scary thing. Akna when they were this little little tiny poochis were like oh my god my life is complete this is the most gorgeous thing in the world and I feel so much love and then later in life everything is cushured to see different things about

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1. 0:32taken to the hospital this morning. So we have to just pour out our hearts and…
2. 5:24Amen. Sometimes the path in the beginning is very short, is very fast. Very exact, very…
3. 10:57[Music] as we all know in the first days I hope it's and also after the…
4. 15:56there's a funny I once said this in shul uh it's a not appropriate but if…
5. 21:27I'm certain that the way that a mother knows its child is he even if they're…
6. 26:57speaking about. these holes in the we we we we love our children. Why? Because that's…
7. 31:57it's you then one of the other kids will see and I'm like not really it's…
8. 37:20to any of their talents, basic love for a child the way they are. And you…
9. 42:05child. They get older. We start to see certain things about them. We forget that we…
10. 47:24>> It's the deepest. It's unbelievable. The natural love is still there deep down inside. The…

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