08-19-2026 Rabbi Moshe Malka - Pele Yoeitz # 81

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Moshe Malka’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[music] Welcome. Nice to see you all. We are continuing the ped under the letter. The letter [clears throat] talks about something called means when someone does you a favor. Always acknowledge the favor and don't be cavoto. Cavo means don't turn away from them and say what's the big deal anyways you're doing it. For example, the Gan says there's two types of guests. What's a good guest? The good guest says, "Wow, look what the balabay did for me. Look at the kala that the woman baked. Thank you. Thank you. How many hours did you work on baking this kala? Look at this ham with potatoes. He had to shle it all the way from Costco and the delicious meat cost a lot of money today. So he's effusive. You know what that means? Very praising. He's effusive with praise for the balabay. And he says, "Thank you for all you've given to me." What does the bad guest say? He says, "Well, he has to cook for his family anyways. So what's the big deal to throw in one more potato? No big deal." Well, kala, who doesn't make kala? Everyone makes kala. So why should I be so grateful? One is a giver of praise, one is a taker. And therefore when you come into this world, there's two types of people. There's people who are affusive and thankful to Hashem. Very little thing. And they don't feel that they owed. They're not entitled. Whatever I have is given. It's a mindset. Other people, no, I did desire.

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