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A discussion on how love in parenting involves supporting children through challenges while believing in their potential.
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my father. He has long given up on me. This girl that um I remember she was struggling and she was mistreating herself in the world. The thing that bothered her father the most for some reason was smoking despite other dangerous things she was doing bothered him the most. Eventually he let go of that and leaned into just giving her space and quieting the tension in the home and quieting the fight. And that gave her space to grow to listen to that heartbeat to listen and lean into herself. She no longer was fighting all the time with her parents so she could
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