Rabbi Naftali Silberberg Embracing our Flaws Addressing Shame Frustration & Feelings of Inadequacy

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okay good evening everyone and today we're going to be doing lesson two are you going to start on page 90. um page 46. yeah we just uh first we did lesson one next week we did Lesson Four and the next week we did lesson three and today we're going to do lesson two I think I told you that um this course doesn't follow the order of Tanya for reasons we're not going to get into it but we are in other words I'm going according to the order of Tanya so we finished so the first part of talks about the importance of being happy of being the SIM card that was lesson one second part of paper Club talks about Alma but uh pain suffering tragedy that we talked about in Lesson Four the third part of all this really made about three distinct Parts it talks about the idea which is guilt and remorse which we spoke about in the last class is going to be shame now last week we spoke about guilt today we're talking about Shaman what's the difference between guilt and shame anyone knows what is anybody better than the other one and they should have no one we have to find out so if you turn to page 47 figure 2.1 you look at the statements over there so we'll uh we'll read them out loud and we'll see if we can come up to the answer what uh what's the nikuda difference the difference between the two so a shame statement is I can't believe I binged again what a weak idiot I am

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1. 0:01okay good evening everyone and today we're going to be doing lesson two are you going…
2. 4:45students says that they're here to study the prevalence of cheating on campus and the other…
3. 10:01Headway so therefore along with the shame there can also be a healthy dosage or actually…
4. 15:10misconception that people are born so thinking it's very clear from Tanya that that's not the…
5. 21:00okay no one is very frustrated yeah I don't know okay that explains it okay you…
6. 26:09because that's what like a key word Adam it means everyone thinks one way and I'm…
7. 31:24holiness this is accomplished by Perfect People by sadikim who transformed their internal bitterness to swedeness…
8. 36:49to the king however we bring him something surprisingly original such as a talking birds in…
9. 42:28with that type of with this character flaw you have to know when you overcome it…
10. 47:47we're halfway there so I'm a loser I don't know what did we just find out…

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