R' Yitzchok Silver - Dating and Marriage

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[Music] shom I'll have to guess the rest of the audience because I understand that the audience online are quite different to the audience present and I have to think of trying to make the Maximum Impact in the place where it needs to be made if we take a look at the secular world if there is any such thing as shim necessarily are thinking of a sh at all so of course dating when talking of dating there are some communities within CL that uh parents see nothing wrong with their teenage children dating without marriage in mind at all very often they've already decided that they will not get married and they're dating anyway so first of all according to the Torah that is forbidden uh most people know that physical contact which is enjoyable is between males and females is forbidden H it's also forbidden just to chat and enjoy each other's company the Torah did not just say thou shalt not commit adultery the Torah said don't even get close to each other so anything that creates some kind of closeness in the way that males and females enjoy each other would be forbidden so we're not talking about dating that's got nothing to do with shim over here because that's not something that that makes a difference to us we're talking about dating for shim so now even dating in for shim unfortunately in many parts of the secular World they will date for not and if things work out then they might think of marriage later they usually get fed up with each other after a year or too and uh that's also not really what we're talking about so what are we talking about when we talk about shim what is that beauty that in the from families at least where I come from

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