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Parshas Toldos: The 10 Commandments of Raising Successful Children - Set 1

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Rabbi Daniel Glatstein

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so yes what do you mean the Ten Commandments of raising children that's uh could you even say something like that you're allowed to do something like that we only have one ten commandments huh well I remember uh RAV Victor Miller said attack the broca has this famous uh Shear the Ten Commandments of marriage so uh from there we learn to to uh package this year in a more interesting way you're allowed to do such a thing so we're gonna call today the Ten Commandments of raising children and we begin no these are Commandments okay so the sukim say to bring him um to bring him his favorite dish and uh he says if you bring me my favorite dish you bring me some basar some spare ribs I will give you a bracha so suddenly almost instantaneously his son Returns what happened how'd you come back so fast and he said of course this is yaakov disguise as God Almighty has given me success has happened for me that I was able to come back quickly please come close and I'll feel you is the famous words and very interestingly Rashi points out that there are two discrepancies that yet picked up on in the way that yaakov was speaking as opposed to asaph so first of all why does it say let me feel if you're Asaf yes never said to Asaf when in any of the previous times that Aesop came let me feel if it's really you so Rashi says it's unusual that my son Asaf should be referencing should be invoking the name of Hashem like the past success so that through yitzhakov ASAP doesn't usually uh invoke the name of Hashem so he said let me see for myself and then Rashi says another difference in the way that yaakov spoke yaakov said the words

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