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מאחורי כל אדם גדול - השפעתה הרוחנית של האישה על בעלה.

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הרב איתי בן אהרון

מאחורי כל אדם גדול - השפעתה הרוחנית של האישה על בעלה.

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When people go on vacation, "nofesh" from the word "nefesh"(soul)—because the soul needs some release and time out—one must be very, very careful about guarding one's eyes, especially during the summer days. Remember the words of Baba Meir, may his merit protect us, who used to say: Holiness is in the eyes. A person who wants to merit holiness, the first thing, what is it? It is the eyes: "Do not follow after your heart and after your eyes." There was a yeshiva here, there is a yeshiva here, Yekirei Yerushalayim, the yeshiva Yakar Yerushalayim under the authority of the Rosh Yeshiva Rav David HaCohen, shlita, who established it together with Hakham Reuven Sharabani, of blessed memory. He was the brother-in-law of Hakham Ben Zion Abba Shaul, a holy and pious man, a saintly Jew. Many times I came to consult with him as a young man, and every student who would arrive at the yeshiva—he would hug and kiss him out of his great love for the students, every student he would hug and kiss. So once he said in a lesson: You are surely asking, how is it permitted to kiss in the study hall? After all, there is a law that it is forbidden to kiss in the synagogue; one of the things Rabbi Ovadia tried to change among the Moroccans is that after they go up to the Torah scroll, they go and kiss it, and kiss it, and kiss it; it is forbidden to kiss in the synagogue. So how did Hakham Sharabani

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