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Mastering our Middos: Anger Management

2.9K views · Sep 6, 2023

Rabbi Efrem Goldberg

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okay good evening everyone thank you for coming and joining for the next installment of our mastering amidos series tonight we're going to try to speak about to work on to improve to support one another and what might be the most pernicious the most dangerous most self-destructive the most damaging negative quality that there is and if you think that I am being bold and Brazen and asserting just how dangerous anger is we'll see just how dangerous anger is we'll see that even those who encourage and promote walking the golden mean finding the healthy medium of qualities in life they agree that when it comes to this quality there's nothing Redemptive there's nothing positive there's nothing constructive about it anger is only dangerous destructive it clouds our judgment it destroys relationships and we'll speak a little bit about maybe some practical suggestions and tips and understanding what predisposes US what understanding what predisposes US what draws us towards that emotion a raw emotion that lacks any intellect at all and maybe some strategies about how we can confront it but a bigger statement to begin with Leo Tolstoy the famous Russian writer once said everybody wants to change this world but nobody wants to change themselves everybody wants to change the world we all have great ideas of policies we all have ideas for major changes for the world we have things that we see in and

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