Créer un espace d'intimité avec son conjoint (Rav Lawrence Kelemen)

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[Music] this elderly Sage gave a course a beautiful course how to be better husbands and he gave us the craziest most counterintuitive advice every night when he was speaking I was thinking this is ridiculous and then he would say go home and practice that and the next week my wife would say go back learn more so one night he said that if a couple's not spend private time together two to three spend private time together two to three times a week their relationship is headed for a crash now when I heard this I was so confused because it was the first thing he said which had made sense in 20 weeks I knew I wasn't understanding him properly so I walked up to him after the class and I said to him Rabbi when you say I should spend private time with my spouse what do you mean at which point he looked at me like wow you're a bigger idiot than I thought so I said no no I understand what I think is private time but what do you think is private time so he said to tell me something you ever take your wife out to a restaurant so I said yeah sure he

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1. 0:02[Music] this elderly Sage gave a course a beautiful course how to be better husbands and…
2. 0:32spend private time together two to three times a week their relationship is headed for a…
3. 1:04to a restaurant so I said yeah sure he said find a restaurant where there are…
4. 1:34I tried this don't do this unless you're married yes extremely effective now I went back…
5. 2:06do he says you take three steps back from the whole world find a restaurant where…
6. 2:37he said because God is head over heels in love with you and he just wants…

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