SHIDDUCH SURVIVAL TACTICS (Part Two) Finding the perfect husband

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Menachem Nissel’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

Welcome back to part two of man's shak survival tactics. Today's class is called drum roll please is what to look for in a guy. So once again a reminder that the presentation that I'm doing is mainly focused on the postm crowd even though 90% of what I'm saying applies to everyone both male and female obviously the male in reverse and female for all the male in reverse and female for all ages but that other 10% be aware that if I'm seeing things that just rub the wrong way with you that's okay and um you can discuss it with me privately or with your mentor or with whom you ever you want and figure out how things will work with you in your case with your situation and your family dynamics and what you're going through and your age group and so on and so forth. So again, today's presentation is generic and I today's presentation is generic and I will do my best to answer the most important questions about what to look for in a young man and in marriage. And I will mention in passing what he should be looking for in you. So obviously this is a crucial question. uh who you marry is not just deciding what you're going to be like in your first year of marriage, not even your first five years of marriage, but it's going to be your whole life. And as I always like to

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1. 0:04Welcome back to part two of man's shak survival tactics. Today's class is called drum roll…
2. 3:42this is going to decide every small detail of the rest of your life. This is…
3. 7:20daughter to a good man who is someone that commands respect and has basic good meidos.…
4. 10:54now dealt with a sh case where the girl found out just before she was going…
5. 15:02a gazillion is forever and ever and ever. That's a lot of time. So your marriage…
6. 18:40which means joy of life someone who's bulba said it's not easy being a woman her…
7. 22:14guys who have been a terror can still be a lot of fun. And that brings…
8. 26:22the person that you marry. Here's my definition of attraction that you're excited to take pictures…
9. 29:59future generations with the ability to say no and the ability to overcome temptation and he…
10. 33:39We're probably a seven and a three. 10 and a zero. That's the OOS and the…

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