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הרב יצחק פנגר | פסיכולוגיה הפוכה |🔴שידור חי

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הרב יצחק פנגר | פסיכולוגיה הפוכה |🔴שידור חי

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Deaths Sometimes things work out on their own, just come on, if it's external problems, I don't know what the weather is like, the government is crazy, okay, that's something we call it, it's not under your control, but what happens if the problems are from people around you, your wife, your husband, your children, your parents, your boss at work, people people you're arguing with, what's called [a challenge] How to deal with difficult people, this is our lesson today, five steps on how to deal with challenging people, okay, now it's not just challenging people, it's also challenging events, and again, soon we'll also see that we're challenging ourselves little by little, so let's go through five steps, five stages, to internalize them, and we'll explain each stage, God willing! We hope that we can do it too. Nice, let's stop here, just this is nice, let's not destroy ourselves. I came with motivation. Dabush. Well, then the first step is how do you deal with annoying people and the like? The first point, pay attention to the sentence that I'm going to tickle you with now. It's not him. It's not him. It's him. I mean, according to Judaism, our perspective should be that every human being is the Creator of the world. He sent him to challenge me. It's not him. It's clear. I want to distract

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  1. 0:00Deaths Sometimes things work out on their own, just come on, if it's external problems, I
  2. 4:48rabbi said check you haven't hurt anyone the husband said I'll tell you the truth I
  3. 10:06wow. Or I tell you I don't know it was hard for me I tell you
  4. 15:11increase the suffering you endure even more. Blah, you owe it to yourself, just for the
  5. 19:50so I tell myself, so even the Creator of the world supposedly put some thought into
  6. 25:04the goat runs away, chased after the goat, come on, he's putting you in the dust,
  7. 30:11dot, or to the king of Egypt, a dot. Why does Pharaoh, the king of Egypt,
  8. 34:50rabbi. I'm done. I'm done. A lie. A lie. You know, someone bought me a book.
  9. 40:03says, oh, we were there. Walla we also bought a critical checker lol it's a shame
  10. 45:32standing by the mall asking for money full of homeless people like that thousands of people

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