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When I’m Deprived of Love, I Look for Validation: The Tragedy of Celebrities

6.1K views · Jun 16, 2023

Rabbi YY Jacobson

Likkutei Torah Shlach Inyan Ha'Nesachim #3 on seeking validation from children.

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a few lines before Patrick Bay's the line that starts page 82 the second column on top it's a schlach the line starts [Music] today's class is dedicated by Javi Kleinman ismus and served the community with dedication for 50 plus years thank you very much so last year we learned and discussed at length what the balatanya says he started to speak about simchas it says that wine brings is which is a strange thing what does it mean that wine brings joy to Hashem that's what the posix says and safety what does it mean so he started to explain what's that simcha is the idea of Gilroy happened bringing out that which is inside it's when all of the blockages and cover-ups are removed and the true authentic self-emerges that's what in other words to put it in different words as we said in one of the joy is not something I create I create something new I'm gonna run after some goal called joy and when I reach it I'm going to be a happy person sometimes pursuing happiness is the greatest contradiction to achieving happiness sometimes it's it's the exact opposite right you're a therapist no you let you've got to let go you got to let go in other words it's it's it's not pursuing it's it's letting my own inside emerge because simcha is an inherent space in a person but we have so many thoughts and feelings of self-consciousness Etc that obstructed that block it so he says the real definition of it's the revelation of that which is inside in the person obviously that itself has layers this layer like the onion you know the desire says

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  10. 56:18when we internalize these truths for ourselves and then we can become sources of inspiration for…

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