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This generation Okay, so welcome back again. We're holding by part three. Last week, we basically went through a sugiyah, little bit about self-esteem, and how a person has to learn to open up himself to allow others into his world. A very, very important topic. This week, with Hashem, we're going to be starting probably one of the most powerful topics. It's a topic that everybody knows. It's a topic that everyone's familiar with, but it's a topic that we have to continue to discuss again and again. It's a topic discuss again and again. It's a topic that I've discussed before. We did a vibe with the third-year boys last month. It's a very, very important topic, something which is going to be crucial for every relationship you ever have, obviously, including a wife, especially. So, maybe we'll start with the hugdamah before we talk about the actual idea, which we'll get to. And the hugdamah goes like this. The Hazon Ish was written Somebody wrote the Hazon Ish a letter. And it was a husband in his very first And it was a husband in his very first year of marriage. And he was asking the Hazon Ish various questions about shalom bayis and various different directions. The Hazon Ish wrote the following in a letter to this man. And he said, "The nature of women is to derive pleasure from the amount of of favor that she finds in her husband's eyes, and she is constantly trying and seeking to achieve this favor. And therefore, said the Hazon Ish, it's an absolute obligation, it's a chiyuv, for

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1. 0:00This generation Okay, so welcome back again. We're holding by part three. Last week, we basically…
2. 1:32for him to show her love, through closeness, through conversation, through expressions, and so on and…
3. 3:33interesting fellow. He was not 100% there. And this fellow walks right up to the bimah…
4. 5:04when he was learning in Kelm, Rebbi Elo Pyon learned in Kelm. When he learned in…
5. 7:05a little bit of an introduction how important this middah is to try and instill within…
6. 9:06person that's worked on the middah of gratitude of hakoras hatov is an automatically happier person.…
7. 10:38then what happens is you look for ways to give people gratitude. You look for ways…
8. 12:40Mitzrayim and go and be go'el Klal Yisrael to get Klal Yisrael out of the galus,…
9. 14:13Pesach Krohn and he gave a speech. And as he was getting into the car, someone…
10. 16:16underestimate the value of a compliment. People underestimate the value of their own personal thank you…

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