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lutsato who tries to teach us how to become the best version of ourselves beginning with zihir is a life of mindfulness a life of conscientiousness and consciousness a life in which we're present in every speech thought and deed moving over to zeresus alacrity zeal enthusiasm how we can go conquer our day and then nikhias what are the things that will bring us down how can we purge from our repertoire the behaviors the thoughts the attitudes that will undermine and sabotage our success and finally the media of precious we're up to the emphasizing to us that just because something is permissible just because according to jewish law it's allowed just because according to america law or whatever country you're living in just because the law dictates that it's permissible doesn't mean it's right and doesn't mean it's good for you and doesn't mean it will help you be the best version of yourself that all of us need to be able to live a certain level of of discipline there's nowhere that it says you can't sleep for 15 hours a day there's nowhere that it says you can't finish a six pack of beer and three bags of potato chips on the couch although those are not good behaviors for a disciplined ben or bas aliyah somebody who's striving who's growing someone who wants to be the best version of themselves who wants to use the most of their day that is not what's going to do it and for example the rabbi said that intimacy in the context of marriage with the right person in the right place at the right time is perfectly permissible i'm numb quite technical of the malik however the rabbi is established we don't observe this anymore but the notion that a man after intimacy becomes about kerry
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- 0:31lutsato who tries to teach us how to become the best version of ourselves beginning with…
- 2:03for a disciplined ben or bas aliyah somebody who's striving who's growing someone who wants to…
- 3:03we have to understand what we're doing we have to understand the appetite we have to…
- 4:04divorce themselves all together from it gambling the same thing most of the addictions and most…
- 5:35and being before god the greeks that all of religion was philosophy and the abstract and…
- 6:37has only started to catch up to now gaza rabbis the gemaran sanhedrin says when it…
- 7:39there's a notion that even that which is permissible at the right time in the right…
- 9:09clothing all because they're keeping up with a fashion industry that moves at a pace that's…
- 10:10just things so we have to have it in the right in the right priority and…
- 11:11sense of of modesty and if it's clothing it's ostentatious then we're rebelling against a sense…
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