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Relationships in Five Dimensions - Parsha Chayei Sarah - By Rabbi YY Jacobson

2.8K views · May 28, 2018

Rabbi YY Jacobson

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[Music] [Applause] [Music] good evening welcome to all who are joining us tonight from around the world this evening's class is dedicated by david and edestein in the loving memory of a young soul alta shula sword love the daughter of rabbi yossi and hindu sword love who was struck down by a bus in jerusalem a few weeks ago tahei nishma satsuru this evening's class is also dedicated by the schottensteins in the loving memory of rabbi gavriel nayak gabi and his wife rifky holzberg massacred in the terror attacks in mumbai their yard site coming up next week their first yard site together with all of the kadashim of mumbai india please open up your curriculums right below the video there is a pdf document a curriculum to source number one we're going to study the opening lines of the talmudic tractate kedushin marriage zagda mishna in the beginning of masakedushin says the mishna isha niknis bisholis drachim a woman is acquired through three methods and she acquires herself through two methods meaning the mishna is saying how does one legally from a torah point of view create a marriage so the way one enters into a covenant a relationship with a wife in marriage it happens through one of three methods what are the three message methods like the mishna niknis bikesf bistar obabia either marriage happens through money or through a document a star or through beer through intimate relations meaning if a man gives money or something that's worth money to a woman in order to enter into the covenant of marriage that is what creates the marriage called kidushin or if he gives her a document a star on which she writes it says harey atma kudashiously you're consecrated to me or bia or through the physical relations

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  1. 6:14various laws in different areas one of these thirteen methods is known as zerushava it's a…
  2. 12:19from the story in which a marriage sadly ended because the wife passed away and he's…
  3. 18:29organism and therefore many different concepts become connected and new ideas derived from them and then…
  4. 24:35the marriage actually blossom because there's a certain trust and a certain confidence that this is…
  5. 30:45life whence such strength such vitality such animation in the presence of so much adversity where…
  6. 36:56is diaphram from the burial plots from the african from the burial places of the jewish…
  7. 43:06this of course means that even when the emotions may be not fully present they don't…
  8. 49:17sixth and the seventh look closely again hold your curriculum open up again source number three…
  9. 55:31ideal has to be this is eternal this is timeless there's no if maybe it's not…

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