Shidduch Series #6: Learning and Working - the Feedback (Ep. 120)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

consideration for me so we're in the middle of our shidduchim series and uh i have have a lot to get to but i've received a disproportionate amount of uh mail as you can imagine on this topic and uh um i've separated them out because i'm not going to deal with every single aspect of it right now but uh my last podcast where i talked about the idea of about the idea of um marrying a learning boy or someone who's gonna learn long term or somebody's gonna be working uh definitely elicited an enormous amount of response i've tried to organize them and i i want i want you to hear what people are saying what people are thinking and then i'll respond to it but i want you to at least hear this is a selection some of these are a little long i tried editing them down unsuccessfully so some of these are a unsuccessfully so some of these are a little long but i think that they are important because i think and this has been my experience every person who writes me and tells me that they listen there are many many others who don't and i bump into them and they say oh i've always listened and i've always wanted to say something and okay number one in your most recent podcast you spoke about working versing versus okay that's right in your most recent podcast you spoke

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1. 1:01consideration for me so we're in the middle of our shidduchim series and uh i have…
2. 4:33miss serious nephesh return understands what it does for this person but asking for a long-term…
3. 8:39during the week it was difficult but it didn't come as a surprise now with the…
4. 12:45her father disowns it he says what are you going to do i'm not giving you…
5. 16:25says i learned from my rebellion i learned more from him i learned the most from…
6. 20:30i don't see how i'm going to make it if i stand learning he says so…
7. 24:35you're going to starve to death so he gave me the ability that people are willing…
8. 28:12with all kinds of different lackings so you need somebody who's going to run a grocery…
9. 32:22forget about heavy endings but this one does but what am i supposed to do i'm…
10. 36:33some other ungodly hour when milkmen and garbage men are wandering the streets oh and also…

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